Question

1. i have developed respectful behaviors and attitudes to replace the abusive ones. i listen to her during conflicts and at other times, i carry the weight of household responsibilities and child care, do not call her names, and support her independence.

1. i have replaced distorted images of my partner/victim with more positive and empathic views. i compliment and pay attention to her strengths and abilities.

1. i have made amends for the damage i have done. i continue to make up for my abusiveness by being consistently kind and supportive, putting my partner/family needs ahead of my own. i have admitted to others that i have lied about partner/victim. i have repaired/paid for items i have damaged.

1. i have committed to not repeating my abusive behaviors. if i backslid, i did not justify it by saying, \but ive done great for 5 months, you cant expect perfection.\

1. i accept the need to give up my privileges and do so. i dont use the double standard i.e. flirting with other women, taking off with friends while she looks after the children, and not letting her express her anger while i do.

1. i am accountable for my actions, past and present. i accept feedback and criticism; listen to how it affects her.

Explanation:

Identify the core behavioral therapy concept for item 6

Item 6 describes developing respectful behaviors, listening during conflicts, sharing household/childcare responsibilities, and supporting independence. This represents active behavioral change and respectful partnership.

Identify the core behavioral therapy concept for item 7

Item 7 describes replacing distorted, negative images of the partner with positive, empathetic views, and focusing on strengths. This is cognitive restructuring/reframing.

Identify the core behavioral therapy concept for item 8

Item 8 describes making amends, repairing damaged items, admitting lies, and putting family needs ahead of self-interest. This represents making amends and active repair.

Identify the core behavioral therapy concept for item 9

Item 9 describes commitment to not repeating abuse and refusing to justify lapses or backsliding. This represents relapse prevention.

Identify the core behavioral therapy concept for item 10

Item 10 describes giving up unfair privileges, rejecting double standards, and allowing the partner to express anger. This represents relinquishing male privilege/control.

Identify the core behavioral therapy concept for item 11

Item 11 describes taking full accountability for past and present actions, accepting feedback/criticism, and listening to the impact on the partner. This represents accountability assessment and acceptance.

Answer:

No.	Answer
7	Cognitive Restructuring (Empathetic Views)
8	Making Amends & Active Repair
9	Relapse Prevention & Non-Justification
10	Relinquishing Privilege & Equality
11	Accountability & Accepting Feedback